My son and husband are great friends. They go cycling together and give hi-fives to each other when happy. Years ago, father-son duos were not like that. Needless to say, the role of a father is changing. And with the changing role of the modern-day father, there is a huge shift in societal norms.
Fatherhood has evolved now. They have actively expanded roles in child care and are challenging stereotypes. Today’s father focuses on interactive engagement, listening, and being a nurturing male role model to his kids.
Although challenges and stereotypes still exist, non-traditional family structures have emerged. So, on this Father’s Day, let’s look at the changed role of the father in families and everything good that has followed.
The Role of the Modern-Day Father in the Family
The roles of parents are now merged, where fathers are happily taking the responsibility to look after their kids. They can equally care for their kids and address their psychological challenges.
Kids have shown the development of several positive attributes. These include –
- Better self-esteem
- Self-control
- Empathy
- Confidence
- Social competence
- Psychological well-being
- Reduced gender-stereotyped thoughts
Moreover, fathers take an active part in the daily duties of the family such as cooking meals, doing laundry, taking care of kids’ studies, and other activities. They are even taking paternity leave from their jobs to care for newborns. Now, let’s take a look at the changes their role in the family has gone through.
Stay-at-Home Fathers
As per Roland Waren, President of the National Fatherhood Initiative (NFI), historically men know very well that they are the providers but shifting roles have made most dads realize that it is not enough to just provide they must also nurture, guide, and partake in their child’s development.
No wonder, the number of stay-at-home dads is skyrocketing. Parents mutually decide that one of them will take care of the kids at home and the other will be the provider. This has resulted from the shift in society’s expectations about the way fathers interact with their kids. In addition, dads are stepping out of their traditional roles. Some are not entering a wedlock and some are divorced. Gay partners are also raising their kids well.
Attending Parental Coaching Classes
Modern-day fathers are involved in the emotional support of their families, more than their fathers and much more than their grandfathers. Now, they take an interest in their children before they are born. They are active participants in planning related to the birth of their child.
From accompanying their wife to the doctor, attending prenatal coaching classes, and getting parenting guidance, to changing diapers at midnight; fathers are stepping up. All this showcases that modern age daddies are looking forward to contributing immensely to their kids apart from simply being a provider for them.
Changes in Caregiving Roles
With father’s increased involvement in the lives of kids, there are a number of positive characteristics that get inculcated in children. These characteristics include increased empathy, self-control, social competence, reduction in gender-stereotyped beliefs, better self-esteem, psychological well-being, educational success, confidence, and life skills. Researchers have also put a stamp on this fact.
Research also show that the impact of a father’s love on the development of children is as important as the mother’s affection. Additionally, fathers who impart more love to their children, help them be strong against behavioral or substance abuse problems.
Men too Dream of a Family
Millennial dads aim to be wonderful fathers. They want to get involved actively in the lives of their children. They want to impart to their kids a solid emotional foundation. Dads are not sitting on the sidelines anymore. With a number of several important areas of their kids’ upbringing, they want to give their best.
The image of the father as stoic and rock-strong is changing now. Nowadays both parents take parenting seriously for their identity. There were times when women wanted marriage and kids but now men are admitting openly about having marriage and children on their minds. Studies suggest that modern-day fathers find their parenting responsibilities as the core of their identity as compared to their father or grandfather.
In Conclusion
To be precise, fathers of the current day and age look forward to playing an integral part in the upbringing of their children. They want to take care of their well-being and maintain a close bond with them. The changing role of the modern day father has also made him juggle well between work and family.
Even in the unfortunate cases of divorce, they want to stand with them emotionally and financially, while being there to mentor and nurture them. Children eventually gain positive energy as their father gives them time, listens to them, and solves their problems. As they are fast adapting to changing scenarios, fathers will soon play an instrumental role in parenting, which is the ideal family situation of the 21st century.
